The Impossibility of Gay Marriage

Let me begin today by clearly stating I am not against homosexuals in any way. I have friends who are gay and I love them very much. Does that mean I am "pro-homosexual"? Nope! If these dear friends of mine ask me (they don't), I will tell them I do not support their choice to pursue this lifestyle, nor do I believe it represents God's best for their lives….but I still love them regardless.

With that, I would like to present the following truth:

There is not, nor will there ever be such a thing as "gay marriage". It is an impossibility.

Even if the President and Congress decided today to legalize "gay marriage", it still could not exist.

You can have all the ceremonies you want in all the churches you want. You can read from the bible at the ceremony, pray prayers of blessings over the couple, exchange rings, call each other "spouse", share a home, start a family, grow old together, and participate in any and all the married "stuff" you choose to. Still, a "gay marriage" is not possible. It will never exist.

Why you ask? How could I say such a thing?

You see, at the heart of every marriage is a spiritual covenant. This God designed covenant can only exist between a man, a woman, and the Spirit of the living God. It is a bonding of three hearts. Marriage, as designed by God, is a spiritual union and God will never join His spirit with anything that attempts to usurp His perfect design. Gay marriage would certainly do that. Therefore, its existence can be in name only. It is a façade.

Bottom line: Nothing spiritual can exist apart from God, and real marriage is completely spiritual.

Honestly, I find it so very strange to hear certain Christians continually voice their support for gay marriage. It's kind of like hearing a person of Jewish descent saying Hitler had a right to do as he pleased, or hearing that Martin Luther King Jr. supported the KKK's existence. No I am NOT comparing homosexuals to Hitler or the KKK. My point is that Christians aligning their hearts to such pagan beliefs is equally, overwhelmingly absurd! It reminds me of the time when Jesus was accused of doing miracles through the power of Satan. He let them know in a hurry that such a thing was downright stupid.

Again, marriage cannot exist apart from God; therefore gay marriage is not possible. Marriage was designed by God to be something that can ONLY exist between a man and a woman. He himself is a living part of every true marriage. This was His design. He is God and He gets to choose. In other words, cows don't fly, dogs don't talk, and pigs don't play tennis. Why? Because, God did not design these creatures to function in such ways, nor did He create marriage for same sex couples. Sorry, you can't change the rules! He's the boss and His word is final.

In Genesis 2:24, the bible teaches us the following:

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh."

Please notice it does not say "a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his husband", nor does it say "a woman will leave her father and mother and be united to her wife".

Say whatever you like, but your opinion (and my own) means nothing. Truthfully, you will NEVER find one single example of homosexual marriage in the bible. You might find negative examples of homosexual behavior, but never homosexual marriage. It's just not there.

God designed marriage to provide many beautiful benefits including partnership, spiritual intimacy and the ability to pursue God — together, but this only applies to a man and a woman. Anything beyond that is of a human origin and has nothing to do with God or His design for His creation.

I realize my words may sound somewhat harsh especially in a culture inundated with politically correct jargon, but truth is truth. Does that mean I am against people who struggle with homosexuality? Absolutely not! Again, I have friends that are homosexual and I love them very much. Still, my love for these individuals cannot excuse me (or you) from recognizing and submitting to God's design for life.

So, why did I bother to state the obvious? Why did I rehash what has been said a million times before? Well, apparently, some Christians in a sad attempt to not "offend" others have indeed tried to change the rules. I hear supposedly Christian people say things like, "They have a right to be happy", and "It's none of my business". Really? Is that what the word of God teaches? Fudge on truth if it offends? Only take a stand if it doesn't compromise the beliefs of others? I don't think so.

Does that mean we have to be mean-spirited jerks? Of course not, but we aren't doing anyone any great favor by pretending God is "okay" with what some "feel" is true.

Again I will say, nothing spiritual can exist apart from God, and real marriage is completely spiritual.

Therefore, like it or not, gay marriage is impossible. It does not exist, nor will it ever exist.

Obama, Hitler, and Rotten Trees

A friend of mine recently put up a picture on "facebook" of a shirt that said, "Keep Calm and Vote Obama". Let me tell you about what happens when you "Keep calm".

In the 1940's, Hitler worked hard to keep his plan to consume Europe and annihilate the Jews quiet. Why? America and the world would not have tolerated it. Even when he began to overtake parts of Europe, Leaders like Neville Chamberlain of Britain wanted to "talk it out". The result: World War 2 and the deaths of millions of innocent people.

Today, Iran's Ahmadinejad has proudly proclaimed to the world at the UN his plan to do the same to our allies in Israel. In fact, he has done this on three separate occasions. Obama's response? Let's try more diplomacy. Folks you cannot "talk it out" with power thirsty dictators and extremists! Again, ask Neville Chamberlain how that worked out with Hitler.

America cannot take another four years of apathy and weakness. To do so would be to hand this world over to those who want nothing more than complete global domination.

On a different note….

Christian: Stop lying to yourself pretending God is okay with your support of liberal candidates. God is STILL against abortion and homosexuality, and His heart continues to beat strongly for His people in Israel. Yes indeed He loves people (including homosexuals and abortion doctors), but do not think you will get some kind of pat on the rump from your heavenly "daddy" because you wanted your way more than His. How can you continue to support those who endlessly challenge God? Such foolishness is expected from the world, but from those who supposedly claim Christ as Savior? The truth is, either you are completely deceived, overwhelmingly ignorant of God's word, or just plain lost.

Bottom line: A tree is known by its fruit. Rotten fruit…rotten tree.

Again, stop lying to yourself. If you can honestly say you support abortion and homosexuality, you're not His.  By that, I mean your heart is not in sync with His.  You cannot be yours and His...it's that whole "can't serve two masters" thing.  Are you lost?  Maybe, but that is not my call to make regardless of what appearances may reveal.  Although, I certainly would spend some time working through that.  It's kind of important you know.

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